Magic Relationship Words Final Review

Posted by on December 25, 2011 No comments

Hello Alan here.

In this post, I want to write Magic Relationship Words review, about one of relationship advice courses which I followed recently.  I decided to write this magic relationship words review so that I can share my experience with this ebook course and how it helped me to improve my communication skills and relationship with my loved ones. The course is written by relationship coaches, Susie and Otto Collins. I was confident with this ebook course before I made the purchase, but now I went through whole the materials, so I can can give you a review and help you to make a better decision if this course is what you are looking for.

Magic Relationship Words

Note: This is a review and how this ebook course helped me to improve my communication skills and relationships with my loved ones,

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To introduce more about Susie and Otto Collins and their work on how to make a loving relationship, I put some of their videos. Please click here to watch the videos.

First of all, what will you get from this ebook course ?

The course consists of one 146 page ebook, 2 bonus short ebooks, 2 bonus audio files and free weekly
email news letters.

  • Magic Relationship Words (pdf file 146 pages)
    This book contains 101 words, phrases and sentence-starters. By starting a conversation with these magic relationship words, the communication will be without put-downs or contempt or assumptions or accusations or defensiveness. So, these magic words help you to have open, honest, heartfelt communication and conversation. In each chapter, first, one magic word, phrase or sentence is given. Then Susie and Otto explain how the magic word works in the relationship. And finally, they give an example of the magic word in action, how the magic word was applied in a real life specific situation.
  • The Top 10 Communication Mistakes People Make in Their Relationships and What to Do About Them (pdf file 24 pages)
    Also written by Susie and Otto, 10 big mistakes which lead to communication go wrong. These 10 points remind the importance of having right mindset.
  • 21 Words, Phrases and Sentence-Starters You Should Never Say To Your Partner, Spouse or Lover (pdf file 18 pages)
    Also written by Susie and Otto, 21 words, you should never say in your relationship. Very painful to find out phrases which I sometimes use.
  • Magic Relationship Words That Build or Rebuild Trust (mp3 file about 66 minutes)
    Web Audio Cast Seminar. They share with us how to make a loving relationship and how to maintain communication open and connected. They discuss some of magic relationship words which are explained in the ebook.
  • Questions and Answers session about Magic Words That Build Trust (mp3 file about 29 minutes)
    From the same Web Audio Cast Seminar, Q&A session. They answer how these magic relationship words can be used in specific situations the listeners are facing.
  • Weekly Email News Letters
    I haven’t received many news letters yet, but most of the time it deals with one specific topic such as honesty in the relationship, and Susie and Otto point to other resources for the solution.

First about the audio files, the quality of sound can be improved, but I like the contents and Susie and Otto’s speeches are very empowering. And I found these audios very useful. I think it’s better first listen to these audios before you start reading the main ebook. Some background and ideas are explained by the authors themselves, so I think you will understand more about the main ebook if you listen these audios first.

Second about the bonus short ebooks, I think they are very good complementary to the main ebook.  These two bonus ebook direct us to the right mindset to have a loving relationship.

Third about weekly Email News Letters, to be honest these News Letters are more like advertisement, and I don’t see much benefit to subscribe to these new letters. But if you want to follow Susie and Otto’s latest work, it might be interesting to read.

Finally about the main ebook, it’s an easy read with full of practical applications and examples. Each chapter is short and you can choose any chapter you want with a specific magic relationship word. Each magic word can reduce or eliminate the possibility of you or your partner shutting down or getting upset, and reading a few chapters everyday help you to remind yourself and make it a habit to communicate with your partner, spouse or lover with a right mindset and intention. This course is about communication skills, but these techniques are not meant to give you edges over other people so that you can manipulate other people to get what you want. These skills are rather about how you control yourself, paying attention more in yourself.

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Here’s how this ebook course helped me:

  1. Being Right or Being Happy
    Now I realize that in many situations I choose to be right rather than happy. If my attitude is, ”I am right and you are wrong”, of course the conversation is likely to be argumentative. Now I see my ego, which need to be right, coming up to the surface much earlier. Now I know that it’s really about me and being right has no need for others to know I am right, so now I am able to stay open and calm, less defensive or blaming in communications.
  2. Contribute or Contaminate
    Through this ebook course, I learned the importance of how I say these magic relationship words, phrases and sentences with right mindset. Whatever I do or say in my relationship, I contribute or contaminate in the relationship. Now I have a strong intention to make changes in myself and create more openness and joy between me and my girlfriend.
  3. Conscious Communication
    I am more conscious about how I communicate with my girlfriend and people at my work. I am paying much more attention if my voice is right, my tone is right, my intention is right and my body language is right.
  4. Pay attention to myself
    When jealousy, mistrust, anger, fear, communication break down, and challenges come up, lots of negative self talks start in my head. When I am in this state, I tend to be closed, blaming and argumentative. So what I do first now is, to take a moment to understand what is going on in myself. Once I get the connection to myself back, it’s easier to stay open and close together.

Last Word

In a few words, this ebook course is a comprehensive exposition and an eye-opener. From this book I learned how crucial right mindset is and how to keep communication open and close without being angry or blaming or defensive. This ebook course is an inspiration and I recommend it wholeheartedly for anyone who want to create loving relationships with your loved ones. This course gives you the ideas and strategies that will help you to have loving relationships and put you on a journey to a place where you become the successful, confident and loving person you are meant to be.

Thank you for reading magic relationship words review,

Alan

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Tell The Truth And Share Your Feelings

Posted by on December 23, 2011 No comments

Most communication resembles a Ping-Pong game in which people are merely preparing to slam their next point across; but pausing to understand differing points of view and associated feelings can turn apparent opponents into true members of the same team.

Cliff Durfee

Most of us avoid telling the truth because it’s uncomfortable. We are afraid of the  consequences. Making others feel uncomfortable, hurting their feelings, or risking their anger. And yet, when we don’t tell the truth, and others don’t tell us the truth, we can not deal with matters at hand.

In every area of our lives, the three things which need to be shared most are resentments, unmet needs and demands that underlie those resentments. Underneath all resentments are unfulfilled needs and desires. Whenever you find yourself resenting someone, ask youself, that is it that I am wanting from him that I am not getting ? And then make the commitment to ask at least for it. One of the most valuable relationship advice and yet the hardest to do for most people is telling the truth when it is uncomfortable. Most of us are so worried about hurting other oeple’s feelings that we don’t share our true feelings. We end up hurting ourselves instead.

We have heard the phrase that “the truth will set you free.” And it will.  The truth allows us to be free to deal with the way things are, not the way we imagine them to be or hope them to be or might manipulate them to be with our lies. The truth also frees up our energy. It takes energy to withhold the truth, keep a secret, or keep up an act.

Telling the truth is one of the best ways to make a loving relationship work.

Thank you,

Alan

Magic Relationship Words – Listening

Posted by on December 22, 2011 No comments

Listen a hundred times. Ponder a thousands times. Speak once.
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Communication is what keeps passion alive in a relationship. To create a more loving relationship, we want to improve how we communicate with our partner.  There are many aspects of communication, and here I want to talk about the importance of listening. Listening is the art of paying thoughtful attention with a mind toward understanding the complete message being delivered. Listening requires maintaining eye contact, watching the person’s body language, asking for clarification, and listening for the unspoken message.

One way people fail to listen carefully is to be too concerned with being interesting themselves, reather than being interested in the person they are listening to. The best way to establish good connection with people and to win them over to your side is to be truly interested in them, to listen with the intentions of really learning about them. When the person feels that you are really interested in getting to know them and their feelings, they will open up to you and share their true feelings with you much more quickly.

People cannot listen until they have been heard. So, before you can use magic words, they first need to get whatever is bothering them off their chest. Whatever the situation is, you first need to let the other people speak about their needs and wants, hopes and dreams, fears and concerns, hurts and pains, before you talk about yours. It opens up a space inside of them to be able to listen to and take in what you have to say.

Try these relation tips in your relationship, listening pays off.

Thank you,

Alan

Magic Relationship Words Review

Posted by on December 21, 2011 No comments

Hello, Alan here.

Thank you for visiting my site dedicate to Magic Relationship Words. What you will find here is the most comprehensive review of Magic Relationship Words and useful relationship tips and advice which helped me to improve relationships with my loved ones.

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